Before and after I got married, I have met many wonderful Christian ladies. But among the many capable and potential women, God brought Damalie into my life as the most suitable helper. I chose her and in her, I’ve found all I need in a wife. I know God knew her, prepared her and brought her into my life for a purpose. In the same way, God knows the person you’ll marry. But since you

Love at first looks great in movies. It holds my breath too. Two actors walking from opposite directions knock each other or bump into each other in the lift, the lady drops something on the floor and as they go down to pick it up, they look into each other’s eyes and fall in love! Perhaps that’s what happened with Adam and Eve when they saw each other for the first time. He had seen

“Papa, are going to wash our car?” asked our daughter. “Yes. But that’s not your car. It’s for your mummy and me.” “No. It is our car.” I could see by the look on her face that she was struggling to understand the car isn’t hers. I told her, “When you complete your studies, you’ll work and make money so you can buy your car.” Some Christians believe everything they own is theirs. Others believe

The world depicts love as an overwhelming emotion that a person has no control over. In movies, a boy and girl fall in love and a few scenes later they’re throwing off their clothes like mad dogs. At that moment, the feelings of lust and hormones mingle into a passing moment of pleasure. The challenge is that when people reduce love to fleeting feelings; it seems like an unavoidable accident that happens and the victims

When I was at campus, I quickly learnt not to ask a girl out if I didn’t intend to start a serious relationship. In my first year, I visited a girl from my fellowship at her hostel and the friends I found in the room told me she wasn’t there. From that day, her friends began joking that I was interested in her. I wanted just a friend and not interested in her as a

To live a pure life, a single Christian needs a plan to overcome sexual temptations and deal with sexual sins. Every battle needs a strategy, every game needs a game plan! Victory is neither an accident nor a loner. It takes outside help from God and others to win and maintain the win! A few months after I left campus, I travelled to Kigali and on my way back to Kampala I sat next to

The first instinct after sinning is to blame oneself, suffer silent guilt and hide from God and people. That’s what Adam and Eve did after eating the forbidden fruit. They hid in the bushes! But there is a better way to get back in the ring and continue the fight against sexual temptations. A son asked his father for his inheritance, travelled to a far land and squandered it in a short time. He became

A few months into our marriage, my wife Damalie teased me to prove my love for her. I told her, “You’ll never know how much I love her until one of us leaves Earth.” Did I answer well? How would you prove love for someone? I think love can’t be proved with words but with continuous loving actions for life. The only way to prove my love for Damalie is to love and be faithful

We see others as we see ourselves. The previous article covered the 1st thing to do before your start a love relationship|10 things you must know about yourself. My wife, Damalie, and I were friends for several years before we became a couple. When the thought of proposing to her ambushed my mind, I couldn’t believe it. Fortunately, I had made no funny moves on her or treated her in any bad way during our

During our teen years, we have low self-esteem because of the changes taking place in our bodies, emotions and identity. I remember the thoughts of not being handsome enough, spiritual enough and failing to look people in the eye while communicating. That was then. I now appreciate the fact that God gives each of us a unique physique, fingerprint, tongue print, personality and perspectives on life. I’ve learnt to love how I look, how I