For Single Ladies Only|How Do I Know He’ll Love Me In Marriage

A chameleon can change colours on different surfaces but a man can’t hide his true nature for a long time. That’s why Jesus said that we shall know people by the fruit they bear in their actions and words.

Does he fear God by hating evil and love God by obeying His commands? A man who doesn’t show the fear of God won’t fear hurting you. If he claims to love God and not do things that please Him, will you trust him when he says they love you? Are you sure God can trust them with you?

Look out for a man who loves God more than He loves work, money or you. If God is first in his life, God will pour His love into your man’s heart so he can love you as God expects of him.

Another way to know he’ll love you is by observing how he treats the women in his life – mum, sister, aunties, lady friends. If he has no woman he respects and loves in his life, you better take it slow or end it.

Many times, couples in courtship see many red flags in their relationship and ignore them. They assume certain things will fade off or change, only to be disappointed and frustrated when their expectations are squashed. And rather than blame themselves they blame the other person whose actions are consistent with their character.

How does he treat you during courtship? Is he insisting on sleeping with you? Does he speak to you with respect? Does he introduce you to his family and friends? Do you sense he values you and considers your ideas or suggestions? Does he give you time or he is too busy?

Before you say yes, please talk to a godly woman and pray about the man who wants to marry you. Sometimes the thrill of love blinds singles not to see the weaknesses of the one they love. That’s why I emphasize wise and godly counsel when choosing someone to marry. It’s crucial.

After you’ve done your due diligence, trust God. He knows all people and will guide you in your decision-making. The most important attitude that you need is to realize you don’t know everything and involve God every step of the way.

And when you see red flags, slow down. You better be single a little longer than marry a man who will not love you as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for her. (Ephesians 5:25)

When it’s all said and done, know the 11 characteristics of true love and the 10 things you must know about yourself before you try to know whether she’ll respect you.

If you have any questions about love relationships that you’d like us to answer, please ask them in the comments below.

Thank you for reading this article. I welcome your comments and questions – as iron sharpens iron, let’s sharpen each other.

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